I remember my mom cautioning me about starting a romantic relationship in my senior year of high school with my favorite guy from youth group. In my 17-year-old wisdom, I challenged her, "But wouldn’t God want me to date my best friend?"

Our story isn’t linear; with it come a few breaks and a little messiness along the way to the altar. It is also filled with forgiveness, abundant laughter, love, compassion, silliness, and an awareness of God’s divine faithfulness.

Unlike some couples, Ryan and I are at our absolute best when we navigate every aspect of our journey together.

Sure, we have separate interests and time away from one another to recharge. Nevertheless, when it comes to using the full potential of our gifts, God has paired us well.

We should not have been surprised that He continually uses our situation to impact others. Week after week, people reach out, seeking biblical counsel on navigating marriage and chronic illness.

After researching the subject, I found dozens of articles written on behalf of one partner but very few from a couple’s perspective. So, we have decided to share aspects of our story with you. Our expertise comes from much trial and error throughout our twenty-plus years together.

It is our prayer that each video or blog post will provide couples with insight into a faith that is firmly rooted in Christ.

A steadfast faith that will point people to finding hope and strength, no matter what chaos life may bring.